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Heart to Heart
A chat experience that is too good to
share...
The confessions of both the
sexes.
Guy: hmmm,

Gal: yeh dil kyu tut
gaya re..??
Guy: tune tod diya...
kaisi kaisi baatein karti hai....!
Gal: buss.. ab tu dekh..
Gal: ab to yeh direct
jayegi..!
Gal: waise, temme.. howz
she..??
Guy: arre we are not
talking...
Gal: hey..! why..??
Guy: things aren't going
that well... isliye dil toot gaya
Gal: u serious ..??
Guy:
ya! weren't u?
Guy:

Gal: shut up..!
Gal: seriously bol...
Guy: seriously yaar, she
loves me a lot and I irritate her a lot, so some issues creep in.
Gal:

Gal: but u love her
too...
Guy: ditto
Gal: right..?
Gal: so..?
Gal: then y such a
thing...
Guy: ya, i definitely
think so and want to... but she acts weird sometimes which just
shakes me...
Gal: weird..??
Guy: ya, I think things
are going well, but she demands time, and believe me, a heck of
it... every time I have to hang up, she fights
Gal: hmm..
Gal: i identify with
this...
Gal: all girls do this
ya..
Guy: phone nahi rakha
jaata
Gal: i kno..
Guy: ?
Gal: it is difficult on
you guys..
Guy: arre par its like
ladne ka bahana chaiye....
Gal: it's not about
phone.. you kno...
Gal: it is like.. see..
Gal: when you keep the
phone...
Gal: that is cuz you
have to go..
Gal: may be with
friends...
Gal: or may be jus to
hangout...
Guy: usko chaiye ke main
usi ke saath chipak ke baitha rahu and even if i hang up she asks
when next.... I can't take that much of her..... pretty flat and
straight but thats what I feel.
Gal: which makes her
feel that she is not that important...
Guy: exactly...! so wats
the solution
Gal: see, the solution
is that ..
Gal: both will have to
understand..
Gal: as in she'll have
to let a little of you...
Guy: and fact is girls
are practically not that important yaar, u have other stuff too...
Gal: and you will also
have to "show" her that you care...
Gal: believe me...
Guy: ya so thats why
she's givin me "space"
Gal: u just SHOW... nd
things will get all right..!
Gal: but it is not
working.. is it..??
Guy: yehi to prob hai
when i show her or do something for her, that doesn't count as it
should....
Gal: hehe..! typical
girl ya..!
Guy: and then i don't
want to do anythig fr her...
Guy: as example-
Guy: i was to go to
market to buy her a valentine present and courier it, we were having
troubles so i thought this would sort it out and we were talking,
after 2 hours of call i asked her i have to go...
Guy: she asked is it
very imp.
Gal: ohk..
Guy: i said no , not
that nuch
Guy: then it all
started, i again asked after a while and again, then things just
carried away... and i said its been 2 hours she said i am always
watching the clock as i talk.... and so it goes on.... u can well
imagine how...
Gal: awww..!!
Gal: yes...
Gal: i kno...
Gal: yaar dekh... 1. you
told her tht it is not important...
Guy: so she said she's
suffering a lot, and i really pity her that she's suffering coz of
me and that too without a genuine fault....
Gal: 2. things neways
not gud bet you..
Gal: pataa hai..
Gal: it is not because
of ne1... it is all because of raising expectations..!
Guy: yp...................!
exactly
Gal: as time goes on..
ppl expect lot from othrs...
Gal: and hence things
sour..
Guy: abe par kitna..........
Gal: so.. the key is to
expect less...
Guy: thand hi nahi padti...
Gal: hehe!!
Gal: i kno ya...
Gal: same here...!
Gal: happens with al..!
Guy: same there... in
wat sense
Guy: ?
Gal: i guess, it is this
time of the year of something..!!!
Guy:

Guy: arre bilkul just
not the season of love, as I say it!
Guy: man we have an
exact wavelength.......
Gal: I mean.. happens
with me too all th time..!!!
Gal: uff..!!!
Guy: u are which part of
it......! the pity one or the culprit
Gal: nd thn on top of
tht aftr all th fiasco, i realize.. tht wot a silly thing to be
fighting upon..!!!!
Guy: so u r the pity one
Guy:

Gal: wel i say m th
culprit...! but then m a typical girl too...
Guy: CULPRIT?
Gal: so, u kno.. i do
all sorts of sad things,.. nd then things get difficult...
Gal: but now.. as i have
understood.. th need of space and.. stuff.. me workin on it..!
Gal: haan ya...
Gal: dekh...
Gal: hum larkiyaan hi
pagal hoti hain...
Guy: hmmmmmmmm

Guy: CORRECT
Gal: as in th beginning
wen th guys are like TOO much into you.. then we don't give thm too
much bhav...
Guy: ABSOLUTELY
Gal: then as our
feelings grow...
Gal: there is a time
gap...
Gal: ween guys at peak..
nd wen girls at peak of love..
Guy: ABE EXACT STORY
YAAR,
WHOA..... HAIR RAISING
Gal: so.. then slowly nd
gradually...
Guy: SERIOUSLY........ I
SWEAR
Gal: we change as our
guy wants us to...
Gal: nd eventually...
Gal: wen we are over
flowing with love.. nd care....
Gal: the guy is already
a li'l detached...
Gal: BECAUSE.....
Gal: now.. they kno tht
we r their's...!!!!!
Gal: well so then we
become clingy...
Gal: nd unbearable...
Gal: nd silly..!!
Gal: instead of handling
them correctly.. everything goes.. well down th drain..!!!
Guy: a 1000 bows to
you... u are speaking up like THE "GOD"
Gal: lolzzz..!!!!

Gal: 'tis all
experience...and observation...
Gal: of ppl in love..!!!

Guy: So wats all goin'
on at ur side?
Gal: yea.. lets c...
Guy:
kya hua, why laughing
Gal: we on weird stage rite now...
Gal: so lets c...
Gal: how things work out...
Guy: kyu kya ho gaya, on the verge of a B'UP?
Gal: well...
Gal: mm..
Gal: i dunno...
Gal: seriously.. dunno....
Gal: cuz, c he's goin na... to dubai...
Guy: y tell me , coz i am sitting here with exact same pillow
Gal: ya dekh.. things waise hi not goin too gud bet us...
Gal: nd dekh now he'll go...
Gal: nd then i guess, thigs become so sick between us.. tht we dnt
kno wot to do.. where to go...
Gal: nd then agar aise hi he goes.. then to thing'll ne'er be
fine..!
Gal: so,,, now, will haveta see.. wot to do...!
Guy: a gal can never leave a good guy, and guys are thinking it over
and over........ again and agian... but never have the guts go break
the thread, I bet every breakup u had was initiated and spoken by u
only?
Guy: ?
Gal: well yes..!!!
Gal: how do you kno...????
Gal:

Guy: well... been in a rel. since 5 yrs i ought to know....... i am
a guru
Gal: lol..!!!
Gal: yea.. th guy's side now...
Gal: he dsnt say it... cuz he dsnt want to be th one to break th bad
news.. eh..??
Guy: I tell u we can't ditch you, we can irritate you, or anything
else... but can't say the final bye...and if u B'UP too we'll not
just hang up... we would try to justify ourselves and then keep it
safe...
Gal: hehe!!!
Gal: but this is so silly.. I mean.. if you cant stay with each othr,
then say so... else...u kno... try nd make life worth living..!!!
Guy: and u know u can easily trap us back.... just call him and tell
him that u love him and still wish to live with him even if he makes
u cry... he'll never have the guts to say NO.
Gal: lolzz!!!
Gal: this is too gud..!!!
Gal: but then this is not right..!
Gal: because.
Gal: you'll live with us.. only cuz we say that we love you...
Gal: nd th othr way round..!
Guy: coz we are always in a dilemma... we ought to think 100 times
before giving a final word....
Guy: that is not the exact thing , do one thing, just tell him jo
chaoge woh hoga just tell what do u want i'll even change myself for
u.... he's gone, " HUNTED AND KILLED".
Guy:

Gal:

Gal:

Gal: gosh ya..! but life aise thore hi chalti hai...!
Guy: man........ we both are too gud at it, wat say u, lets open a
counseling beauro? 50/50=))
Gal: OH YES..!!!
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