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2009 is here...
How to plan it!
Another New Year is
upon us. You've probably got lots of grand plans for change. We all
know that every year we start out with good intentions and within a
few weeks the drive and motivation diminishes. If you are ready to
make a lasting change that positively impacts your life, get the
ball rolling with a well thought out plan for change. The first
thing I recommend is look at what you want in your life right now.
The second is to pick one habit that you could change or create
within the next 21 days. Experts say that it takes a minimum of 21
days to change a behavior. Are you ready to make a commitment to
change? Now, let's get started creating a successful plan to create
one new habit in 21 days:
. Imagine what your life would look like with this new habit. What
would you have then that you don't have now? Visualize what you want
for yourself so that you can create it right now. Your ongoing,
passionate connection to a clear vision will help you stay motivated
to take steps everyday to create what you want.
. Write down the benefits of creating this new habit and your
willingness to make the necessary changes. Be honest. What was your
motivation for the change? What was your attitude at the time? Your
level of readiness to change will determine how successful you are,
and how much time it will take. But you need to be ready, able and
willing to make change happen in 21 days.
. Identify goals that will support your new habit. Write them down
on a calendar or daily planner. Jot down all the tasks and
activities (steps) that will support your goals over the next 21
days. Be specific. Use action verbs. Let your goals have measurable
outcomes. Specify completion dates. Also record what your reward
will be for achieving the goal and read it every morning and night.
This will help you to be more committed to creating a new habit as
each day passes.
. Eliminate roadblocks that could impede your success. There are
always roadblocks to overcome as we move towards creating new
habits. Select one roadblock to work on at a time. For every
negative message you encounter, turn it into a positive one. For
example, "I'm going to fail" can turn into "I have everything that I
need to succeed". It takes practice daily to be successful.
. Build a support network and enlist family, friends and like-minded
people who can help move you towards the first steps to what you
want to achieve. Establish a discussion group and meet in person, on
the phone or online with individuals where you can share common
concerns and feelings.
. If your life is already too full and you don't have time to add
anything else, which is the case for most people, take a closer look
at how you spend your time on an average day. Record your daily
activity. Free up some time you might not have known existed and
incorporate your goals into your daily life.
. Write down a few paragraphs describing what you've accomplished,
and how your life is better as a result, challenge yourself. Strive
to create even more new habits. Make simple changes first and then
take a look at the things that are harder and that require the most
change to achieve your desired results. Tackle them one at a time.
Make lasting changes to your lifestyle and reward yourself each step
of the way.
Start right now! Over the next 21 days: make a commitment to
yourself to identify one new habit that you can create
successfully-and start doing it! Explore ways to integrate your
goals for your new habit with your current obligations and take
those first steps into the New Year with renewed desire and
commitment.
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